Continuing to share posts from my educational journey at St. Louis University.
(photo of Mt. Rainier in Washington, from the back yard of my Gram's house. I took this in 2005 on my last trip out there.)
Originally posted August 30th, 2010:
I always wished I’d been able to complete my Bachelor’s Degree. I’d
even gone as far as requesting degree and class details from different
schools over the years. [edit: even ones that couldn't tell the difference between Engineering and English when sending me information on the requested degree program. ~eyeroll~]
But, once I sat down and counted up the credits I needed and thought
about how long they would take me, I was too discouraged to seriously
consider starting. It didn’t seem even remotely feasible.
Then I heard about a new educational initiative at work. At the
kickoff, they held some informational sessions explaining how the
program worked. They were going to partner with SLU’s School for Professional Studies,
and we would take five compressed classes per year in order to get all
of our prerequisites out of the way. That sounded far better than taking
one class per semester at a traditional school, which would only get me
three classes per year.
I was more than a bit scared at the beginning, because I’d never done
all that well in school before. But, being able to take one class at a
time with my coworkers seemed much less intimidating than striking out
on my own. I told myself that I could do just about anything for nine
weeks, so I could get through the class.
I spoke with my husband and told him this program would last a couple
of years and would only get me part way, but we agreed that I’d never
be able to finish if I didn’t start.
So, I signed up for the program through BJC*. Then, I got through the
SLU paperwork. Then, everyone’s favorite…we took Math and English tests
to gauge our skills.
And I got through the first class…then the second one…and by the time I was close to the end of my first year, I’d realized I could do it. I could take classes at the University and even manage to do well.
Of course, then I realized that if I only took five classes a year, I’d be in school a lot longer than I really wanted.
Time to speak to my husband again! I told him I wanted to increase my
course load. That meant a little less ‘me’ time to help out with the
house and the kids, but it meant I could finish school in three or four years,
rather than seven or eight, and he said he was willing to take on more
of the load at home.
So, I filled out a FAFSA. I got a Pell Grant and arranged student loans (to cover the additional classes, which were not covered by my employer).
Then, I went in to schedule my courses. I wanted to take two at a
time. But, I only scheduled two at once when I could take one on the
campus and one entirely online. Some semesters I only had one class, but
the remainder I was taking two at once.
That’s a lot harder, I’ll admit it.
The terms when I have two classes are more tiring, more stressful and
sometimes overwhelming, but I still feel like I’ve managed to process
and retain the information. It’s not easy, but, it’s attainable. I take
my quizzes or tests online at night after the kids go to bed. I write
discussion group posts and papers during my lunch hour at work. And one
night a week I’m in class with my peers.
Now, here I am, two and a half years into this experience. I’ve just
started my 19th and 20th classes at SPS, and I hope to graduate with my
Bachelor’s in Organizational Leadership and Technology at the end of
Looking back, I remembered how daunting the task in front of me seemed.
Along the way, I remembered how tired and occasionally frustrated I got.
Approaching the end, I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I can read job postings I’m not quite qualified for and think how much closer I am to meeting their qualifications.
I can look at my kids and think of them watching me graduate and completing this great goal.
I can look at my husband and think how my greater income will improve our quality of life.
But, mostly, I can look at that mountain I was so daunted by a couple
of years ago and realize that I’m on the downward slope, all as a
result of having taken that first step.
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